Love, an everlasting topic since the emerging of civilization, is a vital component of our personalities. In the strict, love is a relationship between only lovers; generally speaking, love can be defined as relationships between family members and friends.
Life without love is cut and dried, also meaningless. A writer without an unforgettable love experience is not able to write down any romantic and affectionate lines; nor can a composer create any touching and graceful melodies. Since love is so important in everyone’s life, how can we be confident enough to maintain an everlasting and successful love?
There is an old saying goes like this:”a good start is half of the journey.” To manage love successfully，firstly, you need to find the most suitable person in the world. Someone who you meet in the wrong place and at the inexact time would become a disturber for you. Love is a kind of feeling which involves two sides, and no one can act out a love movie all by his own, that is to say, there is no monologue in love. So find the right person is the most essential link, always remembering this:”forced love doesn’t last.”
An aggressive and considerate person is always more popular than those who are not. To maintain love successfully，one also needs to be more diligent and better at thinking. You should always bear this in mind that you are not alone anymore，but this doesn’t mean that you should suffer any trammels. Learning to be more motivative and offering to take care of her/him are just the accidence. As a gentleman，you need one hundred percentage patience. Everyone knows that “a watched pot never boils”. Being good at thinking doesn’t mean how deep you think，instead，it means the way that you think. The best way to avoid a quarrel is to think by standing in the position of the other，which is known as perspective taking.
It’s a common scene that we get tired and become hesitant from a long-term love lasting for more than one year. Something really astonished each other when you first met are gradually fading away, and all you do together are just some routine work. It’s undeniable that everyone gets tired from doing the same thing much too long, we need to refresh our thoughts and feelings, otherwise, love would become the worst thing in the world. So it’s vital to remain a fresh and passionate attitude. Love should be a journey full of ventures，just as life.
Love is a campaign against time between men and women, and each of you plays a vital role in the campaign. As a result, you should do everything together and you are willing to pay and devote everything under no condition for each other. Otherwise, love would be a hypocritical body inside which actually becomes a simple trade. Any relationship based on benefits and profits never lasts, anyway, partnership is an exceptional. Love is a sort of communication deep down our hearts. If you are pursuing love just for obtaining benefits or fulfilling desires, please just stay away from it, for it will neither bring you ecstasy nor feast.
Love, a high spiritual enjoyment, surpasses the worth of life and any other relationships in the world. Everyone wants to seize it tightly but in vain. Love is just like the sand slipping away through your fingers，all you need to do is let it go.