There is an interesting psychological phenomenon called “Gravida Effect”, saying that if you are a woman and if you are pregnant, you will find pregnant women around you more easily. They seem everywhere, in the market, on the bus or even places you never expected. And you just wonder where they come from and why you haven’t seen them before.
I don’t know if it is scientific. What I really learn is that, we see the world through our own eyes. The things we see everyday are reflections of our inner thoughts because most of the time we pay attention to those things we concern the most. If we are disappointed about the things we see and the people we meet, and we think they are really annoying and frustrating, that’s because we feel annoyed or frustrated in our own heart. If we keep being optimistic and believing that there is still good in this world, we will see right rather than wrong, and good rather than bad. We will see all the good things. What a wonderful world this would be!
I still remember want I wanted when I firstly came to this company. I want to travel the world around, to meet new people, and talk to them to know their stories. So the first thing I must do is to learning as more languages as possible. Some of my friends always kid me that, I am not realistic. But my mom told me, “A dream can never be a real dream if you feel it is easy to make it! So when the others saying you are crazy or something, just keep in mind that, you are doing something you like, and you will make it sooner or later, just a matter of time. Keep trying and nothing else matters.”
Sometimes when we are confused or unsure, we really need to stop for a while and think about what we are doing. And we also need help and advices from the others for we can’t do everything on our own. And then we can hold on. Everybody has dreams and most people have goals. If we want your goals and dreams to become reality, we must move toward them consistently and purposefully. By nature, we always begin with distance between where we are and where we want to be. Our job is to narrow that distance until it no longer exists. To accomplish that, we need to draw our goals and dreams closer to us, while simultaneously moving toward them. And when we fall down on the way, just try again.
Never lost faith in myself, and never give up, for there are miracles in life I must achieve!